All days are not equal. Some days are full of fun and joy. Others are full of sweat and tears. I have been pondering which of these days are of more value to me. The fun days are really a treat. Where everything seems to go right. The children all get along and are sweet to one another. We laugh and enjoy the time we have together without a care in the world. As a mom I get these kind of days pretty often. But I think the days of sweat and tears are the ones I treasure the most. Not a bad sweat and tears but the kind that brings a real sense of accomplishment. Where at the end of the day you know you have made a difference. Days where the children are just in a bad mood. They are short with one another and only concerned with themselves and nobody else. These are the days where I really get to make a difference in the lives of my children. It’s easy to go with the flow on the fun and joyful days. It’s the days of sweat and tears that the Lord does his best work. On these days the children learn that the Lord’s work isn’t always easy. Sometimes we need to be uncomfortable to make others comfortable. Sometimes we need to give rather than to receive. My prayer is that when these days come, as they often do, I will be a godly example for them. I will come along side them and show them what a blessing it is to serve our Heavenly Father by serving and loving one another.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
What a blessed woman I am to be a merry mommy of five!